“Papa kehtein hai badha naam karega……beta hamara aisa kaam karega…”

Everyone in one’s life has some kind of Expectations from someone..Like A FATHER had it with his children..But wats the nature of human being, he knows it very well ki a lot has been expected from him but what he generally does is Unexpected..similar to:-

“Magar yeh toh koi na jaane..ki meri manzil hai kahaaaa????”[;)]

…As far as I think, there are 3 kinds of people:- 1)One who knows everything..but are careless about it..”ki yaar jo hoga ,dekh lenge”..they live in present and don’t think bout future… 2)Other section belongs to one who works hard for deir goal and achieve it…they are the luckiest persons.. 3)And the last type of people..are those who work harder and harder..yet dey dint get success due to deir ill luck…

The HAPPIEST moment in one’s life is dat when he/she becomes a father/mother.Fromt he day of child’s existence inside the womb of a women,she starts thinking about the future of her upcoming child.The man starts panning what to do or not .Surprisingly they even sometimes starts saying ki yaar..:-“Mera beta badha hokar bahut badha engineer banega” or “ meri beti badhi hokar bahut badhi doctor banegi”,etc,etc.. From that POINT OF TIME the existence of “EXPECTATIONS”take place. Its human nature to expect something gr8 from ur child…I mean , Its ridiculous to think like dat without knowing the capabilities and potentials of ur upcoming child. Well tats human nature. At some point its right also..becoz being “a child”, you are a source of expectation of ur elders, but does people ever think by keeping themselves at the position of their elders?? I think dey will get to know it ..wen they will actually face it…

Well , its up to us totally…ki..how we take it …becoz it really hurts a lot…when you expect something from someone and you don’t get the desired result…Origination of EXPECTATIONS are natural…but its “Implementation” is up to the person from whom it is expected [:)]…

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Through Digg I came across this interesting blog which had a good post on tips to increase productivity :

1. Nuke it! The most efficient way to get through a task is to delete it. If it doesn’t need to be done, get it off your to do list. 2. Daily goals. Without a clear focus, it’s too easy to succumb to distractions. Set targets for each day in advance. Decide what you’ll do; then do it. 3. Worst first. To defeat procrastination learn to tackle your most unpleasant task first thing in the morning instead of delaying it until later in the day. This small victory will set the tone for a very productive day. 4. Peak times. Identify your peak cycles of productivity, and schedule your most important tasks for those times. Work on minor tasks during your non-peak times. 5. No-comm zones. Allocate uninterruptible blocks of time for solo work where you must concentrate. Schedule light, interruptible tasks for your open-comm periods and more challenging projects for your no-comm periods. 6. Mini-milestones. When you begin a task, identify the target you must reach before you can stop working. For example, when working on a book, you could decide not to get up until you’ve written at least 1000 words. Hit your target no matter what. 7. Timeboxing. Give yourself a fixed time period, like 30 minutes, to make a dent in a task. Don’t worry about how far you get. Just put in the time. See Timeboxing for more. 8. Batching. Batch similar tasks like phone calls or errands into a single chunk, and knock them off in a single session. 9. Early bird. Get up early in the morning, like at 5am, and go straight to work on your most important task. You can often get more done before 8am than most people do in a day. 10. Cone of silence. Take a laptop with no network or WiFi access, and go to a place where you can work flat out without distractions, such as a library, park, coffee house, or your own backyard. Leave your comm gadgets behind. 11. Tempo. Deliberately pick up the pace, and try to move a little faster than usual. Speak faster. Walk faster. Type faster. Read faster. Go home sooner. 12. Relaxify. Reduce stress by cultivating a relaxing, clutter-free workspace. See 10 Ways to Relaxify Your Workspace. 13. Agendas. Provide clear written agendas to meeting participants in advance. This greatly improves meeting focus and efficiency. You can use it for phone calls too. 14. Pareto. The Pareto principle is the 80-20 rule, which states that 80% of the value of a task comes from 20% of the effort. Focus your energy on that critical 20%, and don’t overengineer the non-critical 80%. 15. Ready-fire-aim. Bust procrastination by taking action immediately after setting a goal, even if the action isn’t perfectly planned. You can always adjust course along the way. 16. Minuteman. Once you have the information you need to make a decision, start a timer and give yourself just 60 seconds to make the actual decision. Take a whole minute to vacillate and second-guess yourself all you want, but come out the other end with a clear choice. Once your decision is made, take some kind of action to set it in motion. 17. Deadline. Set a deadline for task completion, and use it as a focal point to stay on track. 18. Promise. Tell others of your commitments, since they’ll help hold you accountable. 19. Punctuality. Whatever it takes, show up on time. Arrive early. 20. Gap reading. Use reading to fill in those odd periods like waiting for an appointment, standing in line, or while the coffee is brewing. If you’re a male, you can even read an article while shaving (preferably with an electric razor). That’s 365 articles a year. 21. Resonance. Visualize your goal as already accomplished. Put yourself into a state of actually being there. Make it real in your mind, and you’ll soon see it in your reality. 22. Glittering prizes. Give yourself frequent rewards for achievement. See a movie, book a professional massage, or spend a day at an amusement park. 23. Quad 2. Separate the truly important tasks from the merely urgent. Allocate blocks of time to work on the critical Quadrant 2 tasks, those which are important but rarely urgent, such as physical exercise, writing a book, and finding a relationship partner. 24. Continuum. At the end of your workday, identify the first task you’ll work on the next day, and set out the materials in advance. The next day begin working on that task immediately. 25. Slice and dice. Break complex projects into smaller, well-defined tasks. Focus on completing just one of those tasks. 26. Single-handling. Once you begin a task, stick with it until it’s 100% complete. Don’t switch tasks in the middle. When distractions come up, jot them down to be dealt with later. 27. Randomize. Pick a totally random piece of a larger project, and complete it. Pay one random bill. Make one phone call. Write page 42 of your book. 28. Insanely bad. Defeat perfectionism by completing your task in an intentionally terrible fashion, knowing you need never share the results with anyone. Write a blog post about the taste of salt, design a hideously dysfunctional web site, or create a business plan that guarantees a first-year bankruptcy. With a truly horrendous first draft, there’s nowhere to go but up. 29. 30 days. Identify a new habit you’d like to form, and commit to sticking with it for just 30 days. A temporary commitment is much easier to keep than a permanent one. See 30 Days to Success for details. 30. Delegate. Convince someone else to do it for you. 31. Cross-pollination. Sign up for martial arts, start a blog, or join an improv group. You’ll often encounter ideas in one field that can boost your performance in another. 32. Intuition. Go with your gut instinct. It’s probably right. 33. Optimization. Identify the processes you use most often, and write them down step-by-step. Refactor them on paper for greater efficiency. Then implement and test your improved processes. Sometimes we just can’t see what’s right in front of us until we examine it under a microscope.

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